29 [F4M] #USA #online #EST long winded, hopelessly romantic ENM lady hoping to find kink and love in the online abyss

"She had blue skin,

And so did he.

He kept it hid

And so did she.

They searched for blue

Their whole life through.

Then passed right by–

And never knew."

-Shel Silverstein

I am not really clever enough to write an ad that will catch your eye for being funny. I can and will make you laugh while flirting and teasing, but when it comes to writing a bio or ad, all I can offer is my complete authenticity. I am AuDHD and am a medicated/recovered borderline so I believe I tend to come off to others as a little weird, very sensitive, and intensely passionate. I’ve been told by some they find it charming, and that’s the type of person I’m hoping to catch with this ad tonight; someone who appreciates these things and perhaps is a little weird, sensitive, and passionate themselves, ideally with goals and desires similar to my own. Someone between the ages of 24-40ish, who wants to get married someday but isn’t already attached to someone that way, or at least would be open to having essentially another spouse (legality of the partnership doesn’t matter so much to me if the commitment to one another (sans exclusivity) can be there), and wants to have kids one day as well.

I am Ari, I’m 29, a demisexual, omniromantic, polyamorous switch living in the EST zone. Ideally you’re not far from the general east coast of the USA or you’re open to relocating at some point in time. I also consider myself leftist and an atheist, I am not at all a spiritual person (I will absolutely respect your spirituality, however!). I have put a lot of effort into self-improvement and it’s important to me that my partner(s) do, or at least care, about the same. I have also devoted a fair amount of mental effort into learning about parenting and will continue to do so, as I want to have kids one day and I intend for the generational curses I was given to end with me. I am in the process of becoming a licensed nail tech, I really enjoy it.

🌸 I dress quite feminine, a lot of dresses and skirts- florals when I’m dressing casual; bright, fun, pastelcore or goth-lite when I’m feeling more energetic about my style. I enjoy bright, fun makeup and painting my nails, especially if I’m wearing something chosen by a handsome man

🎮 I play video games, mostly PvE survival (The Long Dark) , cozy games (the My Time series), visual novels (TOUCHSTARVED!!!), settlement builders (Going Medieval/Medieval Dynasty), and story rich solo RPGs (Kingdom Come: Deliverance)

🎨 I have all sorts of artistic and crafty hobbies, including drawing, painting, embroidery, sewing, and I currently learning how to use procreate, but as a traditional artist, there’s certainly a learning curve I want to build a business out of my creations and have made a few steps in that direction, but its a work in progress.

🎵 I collect Fandom merch and Vinyl records, my prize collection piece is my copy of Bright Eyes’ "The Studio Albums", but I really want the complete set of Radical Face’s "The Family Tree" albums. I listen to a fair amount of indie/folk music, but I am also entirely obsessed with Sabrina Carpenter.

⛓️ Kinkwise, I am quite open-minded. I’m a sadomasochistic switch, though I have two subs already so I’m really mostly looking for a gentle pleasure Dom or Dom leaning switch.

I am looking to submit to someone who is very stable and sure of himself, I am eager to please and have an untapped ocean of devotion I have been yearning to give to my Dom, but I still haven’t found him. A few goals I have that I would appreciate help with are:

-Learning how to develop and manage my plushie-making business

-Working out/having an exercise plan

-Working out an organizational system for chores and other tasks

-reading more books

I know I have a lot to offer, it’s just hard to find a Dom that is open to non-monogamy and wants the same future I want, but is available to pursue it with me. Take a look at my kink list if you’d like to know more about the kink stuff 💖

https://goctionni.github.io/kinklist-v2/#dWMWMpR

For those of you interested in seeing, here is a picture of me:

https://imgur.com/a/me-ari-5KPUTCX

Okay, I think that just about covers the ‘about me’. I do not reply to low effort messages, so keep that in mind when you reach out. I have a pinned post on my profile with some information about what I look for in a message, if you’d like to catch *my* eye, please read that. Let me know a bit about yourself, please let your personality shine through (huge bonus if you include a SFW picture(reddit won’t let you send a pic with your first message, but if you wanna stand out, you can upload a selfie to imgur like I did)), tell me what you think might make us a good fit for one another, and if you’d like an ice breaker- what is your favorite quote, or what is one that inspired you to live your life a certain way?

Mine is, "what’s true will be true, our job is to deal with that truth", from season 6 of Community. That has become a bit of a mantra for me when I start to get worried about something.

Thanks for reading, and good luck in your search!

Note:

This is my second time uploading this ad, but I’ve gone through and added some information and an updated picture. If you reached out to me before and did not hear back from me, please feel free to review the stuff I’ve updated (mostly at the end of the first paragraph) and if you’d still like to try to connect, please feel free to message again. I have roughly 100 message requests I havent replied to yet because I’m overwhelmed with the amount of people who are out of my age range or don’t share specific goals that I should have outlined the first time, or even people who just didn’t say anything wrong but didn’t say anything that really indicates a strong pot for connection, either.